<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409</id><updated>2011-04-22T01:35:26.119-04:00</updated><category term='Jessica'/><category term='Vanessa'/><category term='Loren'/><title type='text'>revolution</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>49</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-6492746221108131811</id><published>2009-05-05T22:13:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-05T22:16:07.363-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>WNL!</title><content type='html'>We're taking this thing to a Whole Nutha Level!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This will be last post on the blog formerly known as Real Life Leaders.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From now on, you can  join the revolution at &lt;a href="http://ohiovalleyrevolution.blogspot.com/"&gt;OhioValleyRevolution.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See ya there!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-6492746221108131811?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/6492746221108131811/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=6492746221108131811' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6492746221108131811'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6492746221108131811'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/05/wnl.html' title='WNL!'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-6898341825092722651</id><published>2009-04-20T00:06:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-20T01:13:44.311-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Faith</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;Tonight I had the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;privilege&lt;/span&gt; of listening to a friend of mine give message at a local ministry event. His message was all about "FAITH". As part of the faith message, he used a baseball analogy that really caused me to stop and think for a moment. The analogy went something like this,"in baseball, there a several ways to strike out at bat" and he began to describe the possibilities, but the meat of the story surrounded the fact that worst way in the game to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;strike&lt;/span&gt; out is to let the pitcher throw the strikes right down pike, over the plate, and into the catcher's glove, without even taking a swing at the pitch. He used this image to talk about how important faith is to our calling, and really then boiled it down to risk taking. In order to hit the ball, you have to take a swing. You have to risk missing the ball and getting a strike, in order to have success at making contact with the ball. Here is where my mind starting processing things at a different level. As we swing our proverbial bat here this evening, let's look a couple of things:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;1. It's by faith that we are playing in the game!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;--I believe that God has a plan for people who do not have an honest relationship with Him right here in Belmont &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;County&lt;/span&gt;, and I am being faithful to that vision that has been placed in front of us. Gotta have faith to step out of our comfort zone for the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;unchurched&lt;/span&gt;. "Gimme the Ball"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;2. It's by faith that we swing the bat! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;--I believe that all people need the saving Grace of Jesus and for that reason, I don't want any pitches to get by me without taking a risk to hit them. The stakes are too high! There are too many &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;unchurched&lt;/span&gt; people that are closing there minds to Jesus because all the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;freakin&lt;/span&gt; strings we attach with &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;religion&lt;/span&gt;. I am not saying take reckless swings at the ball, but we have to meet people where they are and on terms that they are familiar with.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;But, as you ponder these images in your mind, let's give this faith thing some additional substance. We have the all-mighty God on our side! With 100% unconditional faith in our God, total trust that His ways are the Best ways, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;incomparable&lt;/span&gt; surrender to His desires instead of ours, and the confidence that would go along with these &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;attributes&lt;/span&gt;, WE WILL hit home runs!!!! The first leap of faith is one of the hardest, but with God on our side, we can do the impossible!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;If you been at bat a few times and watched many pitches go by without a swing, or if where you are at right now, you feel the swing and misses are getting the best of you, we want to dream about "home runs" and "wins" with you! We want to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;desperately&lt;/span&gt; share Jesus with our community in a relevant way. We want to be a church for people who do not like church. We want a place of life change by and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;thru&lt;/span&gt; Jesus!! God wants us to trust in Him, with all of Heart, mind and strength--Though FAITH in HIM, he wants us to have the confidence to step up to the plate, have the riskiness to swing the bat, and the Heart and drive to knock it OUT-of-the-BALLPARK in HIS name!! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3366ff;"&gt;One Church...One Vision:the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;unchurched&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-6898341825092722651?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/6898341825092722651/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=6898341825092722651' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6898341825092722651'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6898341825092722651'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/04/faith.html' title='Faith'/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-6808411895291759081</id><published>2009-04-19T08:31:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-19T08:38:36.712-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>EXCITING STUFF!</title><content type='html'>So I got this message in my Facebook inbox (I've deleted last names):&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Hi Jessica - I don't think we even know each other.  I actually clicked on your profile to see who the nice person was that was going to take Mike's puppy.  From there, I "snooped" around.  Long story short, I have been trying to find a church that would work for my family.  I am not interested on an "If you (fill in the blank)_________, then (and only then) will you be "good", "saved", etc.  Something tells me you might be the person to ask about something out there that is a little different, and more accepting, positive, real, etc.  If you'd like to share, I'd love to listen.  Thanks so much, Amy&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wrote back to Amy and hopefully we can get together soon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We've been asking God to move in BIG WAYS in Belmont County and He certainly is!  People are hungry, restless.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pray for Amy and her family.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pray for our team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pray for Belmont County.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Amen!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-6808411895291759081?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/6808411895291759081/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=6808411895291759081' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6808411895291759081'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6808411895291759081'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/04/exciting-stuff.html' title='EXCITING STUFF!'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-6445790564241689466</id><published>2009-04-16T10:28:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-16T10:30:01.613-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Change</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://www.thedailyverse.com/"&gt;TheDailyVerse.com&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;color:#ff0000;"&gt;For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven... Ecclesiastes 3:1 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;Change is going to happen. You can count on it like you can count on summer turning into autumn, autumn turning into winter, and so on. There is a divine purpose for change - it is necessary to prepare for the next season. Instead of spending your energy reacting to the changes that are bound to come, start considering how you can spend that energy embracing those changes and living them out to the fullest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-6445790564241689466?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/6445790564241689466/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=6445790564241689466' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6445790564241689466'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6445790564241689466'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/04/change.html' title='Change'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-9092220617811444137</id><published>2009-04-11T21:59:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-11T22:04:51.288-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Unchurched Friends</title><content type='html'>"I want a church that my children can understand and enjoy going to."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That was facebook chat from an old high school chum.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An old high school chum who is surrounded by churches in St. C., but NOT ONE that is applicable to her and her childrens' lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You hang on, baby!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's coming!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's do this thing!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-9092220617811444137?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/9092220617811444137/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=9092220617811444137' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/9092220617811444137'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/9092220617811444137'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/04/unchurched-friends.html' title='Unchurched Friends'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-5960709979353347781</id><published>2009-04-11T21:29:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-11T23:02:40.128-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Leadership and Fear</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#3366ff;"&gt;from Perry Noble's blog:&lt;br /&gt;*part of a series-visit his blog on our links&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My fourth hill: the hill of fear.&lt;br /&gt;I have a philosophy when it comes to leadership and it is that God will allow us to go through fearful situations in order for us to renew our passion and desperation for Him!&lt;br /&gt;One of the most ridiculous prayers that a leader or anyone can pray for that matter is God please take the fear away from me. A leader isn’t one who leads when everything is good. A leader is one who can face fear and still believe that God is completely sovereign.&lt;br /&gt;I’ve spent most of my life as a church planter in fear.&lt;br /&gt;I was scared to plant the church wondering every week are people going to show up (by the way, I still wonder that every single week).&lt;br /&gt;I was scared when we went to one service to two services in the Sullivan Building at Anderson University thinking people were not going to come.&lt;br /&gt;I was scared when I felt the Lord tell us to move from the 150 seat facility on the campus of Anderson to the 1,100 seat facility.&lt;br /&gt;I was scared when God told us to build the facility we are currently in on our Anderson Campus.&lt;br /&gt;I was scared when God told us to launch a church in Greenville.&lt;br /&gt;I was scared when God told us to launch a church in Florence.&lt;br /&gt;I was scared when God told us to build a Children’s and Youth Facility on the Anderson campus.&lt;br /&gt;I have been scared as a leader most of the time and I am so thankful because if I were not scared then that would result in pride and arrogance. I know that I cannot do a thing unless God moves and interacts and my prayer for me is that I will always be willing to face my fears and know that God is in complete control.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;****************************************************&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;MY THOUGHTS&lt;/span&gt;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;One of the things I have been letting hold me back in ministry recently is this very subject! What if I step out and fail..........What if I step up and realize that I am not good enough...........What if I can't take the heat when it comes, and I know it will come............&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;Leaders that cares about the unchurched, truly and passionately care for the unchurched,  will continually meet with these questions--AND you know who it most often is responsible for bring these questions to your mind? It is the other "churched" people around you. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;They will question your passion to provide an environment that might make the unchurched more comfortable with the Sunday morning experience.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;They will question your vision that God has placed on your heart to have a church that does not put personal desires in front of the unchurched.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;Don't even get me started when it comes to the music that we play as part of the worship experience!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;It often times becomes a mountain of doubt and fear when you constantly feel the "buttons" on the back or your head (Mark Hall from Casting Crowns-story) being pushed, especially when it comes from Christians who really don't understand your passion. I have learned alot in past months that I MUST face these fears, like Perry is talking about, head on and asking God for strength, endurance, and the will to keep the vision. A vision where ALL people are loved equally- the good, the bad and the ugly-ones that got it goin on and the ones that don't even have a clue!! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;the&lt;strong&gt;revolution&lt;/strong&gt;project is obsessed with making Jesus and His Love for all of us, our #1 vision. We believe that His Grace and Love is available for all and that we as "Christians" got to get our freakin selfish desires out of the way and be obsessively passionate about getting our hearts lined up with Gods desires!!! Listen now, it is truly not about what "&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Christians&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;" want or like........&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;*not the music&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;*not the church environment&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;*not the lighting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;*not the "buffet" of food in the foyer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;*etc, etc, etc&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;It has to be about what makes a person or persons open to hearing about the Grace and Love that Christ offers them, AND it's about us "Christians" believing that the people who do not have a relationship with Jesus are the most important thing to us. I know that they are to God!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;Fear can not be an option! There's too much at stake. Let's have short prayer together:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;God, please help us meet the fears facing us, "head-on". Father help us learn from our fearful experiences and make us even more passionate about the things that BREAK YOUR HEART.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3366ff;"&gt;Amen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#3366ff;"&gt;**One Church...One Vision: the unchurched**&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-5960709979353347781?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/5960709979353347781/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=5960709979353347781' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5960709979353347781'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5960709979353347781'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/04/leadership-and-fear.html' title='Leadership and Fear'/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-3693576118140588770</id><published>2009-04-04T00:32:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-11T22:45:12.224-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>That Can't Happen...</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://www.stevenfurtick.com/uncategorized/that-cant-happen/"&gt;Steven Furtick&lt;/a&gt;:  That can’t happen&lt;br /&gt;One of the sayings we used to employ around here is: &lt;em&gt;That can’t happen.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;Battery in a handheld died during announcements? &lt;em&gt;That can’t happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;Audio on a video didn’t fire on cue? &lt;em&gt;That can’t happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;Staff member showed up late for a meeting? &lt;em&gt;That can’t happen.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;We don’t use the phrase quite as much these days. Because fact is: That &lt;em&gt;can’t&lt;/em&gt; happen &lt;strong&gt;does&lt;/strong&gt; happen. Inevitably. Inconveniently. In recurring patterns.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what do you do when that happens? Here are a few suggestions:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Force accountability for the mistake. &lt;/strong&gt;In our weekly production meeting, there’s a section called hits and misses. Under misses, everything that went wrong on Sunday is listed and scanned by the entire group. We don’t discuss the majority of the items, but requiring that they be listed and acknowledged is a step toward ensuring that it won’t happen next time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Diagnosis systems-not symptoms.&lt;/strong&gt; Don’t settle for: “Jeff forgot to change the battery…I yelled at him”as an acceptable explanation for the mistake. Cause Jeff might not be the one to change the battery next time. What’s the system to make sure the batteries get changed? Is it a good one? If so, why was it violated? What have you done to prevent it from happening again-not just next week-but 6 months from now?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If that keeps happening, either change the standard or change the personnel.&lt;/strong&gt; Otherwise, you’re sending a message: &lt;em&gt;that really can happen-it’s no big deal&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mistakes aren’t fatal. Apathy is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Wow! Now THAT'S a Standard of Excellence!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-3693576118140588770?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/3693576118140588770/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=3693576118140588770' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3693576118140588770'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3693576118140588770'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/04/that-cant-happen.html' title='That Can&apos;t Happen...'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-5495282939316546244</id><published>2009-04-01T16:58:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-01T17:32:25.960-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>BROKEN and ANGRY...</title><content type='html'>I just got a piece of mail.  It's from a wonderful local organization that is putting together a day of events for kids that are going back to school.  They are going to literally GIVE AWAY over 1000 backpacks, school supplies, hair cuts, dental demonstrations, medical screenings, and other services.  They call it a "Back To School Kids Fair".  They do this so kids can return to school with the tools that they need to be successful.  They're going to TEACH these kids how to be healthy and how to keep their teeth healthy as they give away medical and dental care to those who can't afford to see a doctor or dentist. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The letter starts out, "Do you remember the excitement of returning to school with your new backpack and assortment of school supplies?  For many children in this county, new backpacks and supplies are out of their reach."  It's a GREAT letter and a GREAT event.  But you know what?  It ANGERS me and BREAKS my heart all at the same time.  You know why?  Because I want to know where the CHURCH is and why there isn't a CHURCH that is having a back to school fair for kids that can't afford the tools that they need to be successful in life.  I am BROKEN because it's the CHURCH's job to make sure that kids have what they need to be successful and it is FAILING and because it is failing, other secular organizations have to step up to the plate.  And you know what?  When those kids that go to that fair grow up and want to be a part of something bigger than themself, they will go be a part of a secular organization that meets kids needs instead of becoming a part of the church that is SUPPOSED to meet people's needs.  The church is losing ground and losing more and more credibility every day that we fail these kids and their families.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If THE CHURCH simply MET PEOPLE'S NEEDS instead of sitting in their pews/seats and judging their community and arguing over the color of the carpet they would AUTOMATICALLY gain credibility with people.  The problem is not that people aren't interested in Christ today.  The problem is that the body of Christ (the CHURCH) is no longer appealing because we have made it ugly by our judgement and lack of love for our neighbors.  No wonder most of the people around me don't go to church.  If I didn't know Jesus already, I probably wouldn't want to be a part of the church either.  The problem is, every kid that a secular organization helps become successful is one that the church failed and lost the opportunity to share the love of Christ.  It makes me down right angry...and it breaks my heart...all at the same time.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-5495282939316546244?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/5495282939316546244/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=5495282939316546244' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5495282939316546244'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5495282939316546244'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/04/broken-and-angry.html' title='BROKEN and ANGRY...'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-1141381052534914593</id><published>2009-03-26T22:21:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-26T22:23:59.444-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Leadership</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://evotional.com/2009/03/constant-plussing.html"&gt;Mark Batterson&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When it comes to leadership, &lt;strong&gt;half the battle is an uncompromising commitment to do it big and do it right&lt;/strong&gt;.  Come hell or high water, great leaders &lt;strong&gt;don't settle for anything less than their best effort&lt;/strong&gt;.  They are relentless.  In many ways, great leadership boils down to this: you do&lt;strong&gt; whatever it takes&lt;/strong&gt; to make the dream become a reality.  You settle for nothing else.  You settle for nothing less.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Thanks, Mark!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-1141381052534914593?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/1141381052534914593/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=1141381052534914593' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/1141381052534914593'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/1141381052534914593'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/leadership.html' title='Leadership'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-317976400403337347</id><published>2009-03-26T16:37:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-26T16:41:03.653-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>VISION</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://www.oakleafchurch.com/blog/?p=2497"&gt;You Can Know God&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;Thinking out loud about some of the things I’m learning about leadership.  Today…here’s some thoughts on vision.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;People will not buy into a vision that they do not understand.  But if they understand the WHY, then will often jump in with both feet. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;It’s virtually impossible to over communicate the vision.  We must keep telling (and showing) people the WHY behind the WHAT. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Casting the vision doesn’t always mean it’s understood.  We need to ask follow up questions to make sure people are on the same page. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Sometimes, people get disgruntled or don’t act the way you want them to act, because they don’t understand &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The more confusing the concept, the smaller the meeting needs to be.  If I’m talking about something really intense, I need to process it through small groups first…not the entire church all at once. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When it comes to making decisions about vision, ask if the PRICE is worth the PRIZE?  When we were talking about doing the Egg Drop, I decided that the PRIZE of connecting 300+ OLC volunteers to a community event was PRIZE enough, even if it cost us a little money. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.” - Walt Disney &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Everybody says it, but it’s absolutely true.  Vision leaks over time.  We have to keep reminding people. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;It’s better to illustrate the vision than to describe it.  SHOW people what it looks like. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A phrase I’m learning to use more and more in discussions is “So, just to be clear…” &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Vision cannot be imported.  If you borrow your mission and vision statements from other churches, you’re trying to import your vision. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Be ruthless about the vision, and don’t change it just because someone doesn’t like it or quits giving money to it.   &lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;(My Favorite!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Vision is what leads the leaders. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Yea Baby!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-317976400403337347?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/317976400403337347/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=317976400403337347' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/317976400403337347'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/317976400403337347'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/vision.html' title='VISION'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-3809315420693381869</id><published>2009-03-24T12:45:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-24T12:58:19.052-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>My Turn to be Angry!</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;My turn to post from &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.perrynoble.com/2009/03/24/four-leadership-myths-that-arent-usually-talked-about-part-one/"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Perry Noble&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Four Leadership Myths That Aren’t Usually Talked About–Part One&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this series of posts I completely understand that I will really tick some people off…but I feel like some people will be set free.  Understand this before you begin reading…God doesn’t use people pleasing pastors to accomplish His purposes!  He uses men SOLD OUT to Him…and His call, which means there are times HARD things must be said and done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here we go…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Myth #1 – Anger Is Ungodly&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you ever been told after a message, “You seemed mad today?  You should really try to be more kind?”&lt;br /&gt;Believe it or not—that’s been said to me a time or two.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I spent a lot of time thinking about this and came to the following conclusion…if a pastor isn’t pissed about something…he probably doesn’t preach/lead from passion and conviction, but rather from convenience and apathy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every leader that did something significant in the Scriptures was ANGRY about something…&lt;br /&gt;Moses was angry about his people being enslaved.&lt;br /&gt;David was angry about Goliath.&lt;br /&gt;Jesus and Paul were angry about religious people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the one who sticks out to me on this point is Nehemiah!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In &lt;a title="Bible Gateway" href="http://biblegateway.com/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&amp;amp;version=NIV&amp;amp;passage=Nehemiah+1-12"&gt;Nehemiah 1-12&lt;/a&gt; we see a man completely sold out to a vision.  He risked his life for the vision in chapter one, fought his critics and enemies, dealt with leadership challenges and poured his heart, soul and his money into seeing the vision God placed inside of him come true.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He then honored his word and went back to see the king…then returned to Jerusalem in &lt;a title="Bible Gateway" href="http://biblegateway.com/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&amp;amp;version=NIV&amp;amp;passage=Nehemiah+13"&gt;Nehemiah 13&lt;/a&gt; to see what he had fought so hard for fall completely apart…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And he was pissed!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He SERIOUSLY did things that probably caused the bloggers to go nuts!&lt;br /&gt;In &lt;a title="Bible Gateway" href="http://biblegateway.com/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&amp;amp;version=NIV&amp;amp;passage=Nehemiah+13%3A7-9"&gt;Nehemiah 13:7-9&lt;/a&gt; he literally cleaned out a dudes “office” by throwing things out in the street.&lt;br /&gt;In &lt;a title="Bible Gateway" href="http://biblegateway.com/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&amp;amp;version=NIV&amp;amp;passage=Nehemiah+13%3A10-11"&gt;Nehemiah 13:10-11&lt;/a&gt; he rebuked the leaders for not carrying out the vision.&lt;br /&gt;In &lt;a title="Bible Gateway" href="http://biblegateway.com/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&amp;amp;version=NIV&amp;amp;passage=Nehemiah+13%3A15-22"&gt;Nehemiah 13:15-22&lt;/a&gt; he literally threatened to beat the crap out of people who were threatening the vision.&lt;br /&gt;In &lt;a title="Bible Gateway" href="http://biblegateway.com/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&amp;amp;version=NIV&amp;amp;passage=Nehemiah+13%3A23-25"&gt;Nehemiah 13:23-25&lt;/a&gt; he lost it and DID beat some people up!&lt;br /&gt;In &lt;a title="Bible Gateway" href="http://biblegateway.com/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&amp;amp;version=NIV&amp;amp;passage=Nehemiah+13%3A28"&gt;Nehemiah 13:28&lt;/a&gt; he fired a guy pretty forcefully!&lt;br /&gt;Nehemiah was ANGRY…godly anger!  He was full of passion…godly passion.  He did some things that would be considered unorthodox in today’s world…and yet there is not one single Scripture rebuking him for how he acted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a leader there have been things I’ve had to apologize for…but I will NEVER apologize for passion…ever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MAYBE that’s one of the problems in church world today—there aren’t enough leaders who will FIGHT for what they believe in.  The early church leaders were willing to sacrifice their lives…unfortunately many leaders today won’t even sacrifice a paper cut!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People full of passion are used by God to accomplish His purposes.  Apathy is absent in heaven…it should be absent in the church and her leaders!!!  A leader should always be willing to repent from ungodly anger…but NEVER for being angry because the God given vision is being polluted or diluted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Well, well.  Read that last line again. "A leader should NEVER repent for being angry because the God given vision is being polluted or diluted."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Belmont County is STILL in need of a church that values unchurched people more than religious people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Belmont County is STILL in need of a church that is willing to set the preferences of Christians aside in order to reach those who don't yet know Jesus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;Belmont County is STILL too full of churches who are willing to tell the unchurched people of Belmont County to "Go to Hell" (LITERALLY) because they are afraid they'll get too big ("I won't know everyone's name") or because they feel more compelled to display their "acts of holiness" (read "weirdness" if you are unchurched) than they are compelled to not freak out their unchurched neighbor.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ff0000;"&gt;And THAT makes me VERY angry.  And I will not repent!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-3809315420693381869?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/3809315420693381869/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=3809315420693381869' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3809315420693381869'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3809315420693381869'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/my-turn-to-be-angry.html' title='My Turn to be Angry!'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-2857645553232119302</id><published>2009-03-20T15:57:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:01:00.677-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Loren'/><title type='text'>Sometimes we have to face our fears</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;Sometimes We Have to Face Our Fears&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;by : Perry Noble&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God taught me yet another lesson through my little girl during the recent snow storm we had here in the upstate - There are times when He will place us right in the middle of what we fear the most to prove to us HIS power and also to show us that, many times, what we are fearing should not be feared at all.&lt;br /&gt;Let me explain…&lt;br /&gt;Lucretia got Charisse dressed the morning after it snowed and I took her outside.  She had a very confused look on her face while I tried to explain to her it was snow.&lt;br /&gt;We stepped out in the yard and I put her down in the snow…she FREAKED OUT!  Seriously, it was a complete meltdown…she was scared out of her mind because I had placed her in an environment with which she was not familiar…and it made her VERY uncomfortable.&lt;br /&gt;SO…I scooped her up and gave her a huge hug, told her it would be alright and then walked around in the snow holding her.&lt;br /&gt;She was fine as long as I held her…so…I decided to try to put her down again…and she began freaking out before her feet ever touched the ground!&lt;br /&gt;I tried reasoning with her.  I explained to her that the snow would not hurt her.  I told her I would be right there with her…but none of that brought her any level of comfort…she &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;didn&lt;/span&gt;’t want to get in the snow.&lt;br /&gt;After about 10 minutes I decided that she had to get over her fears.  (I &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;didn&lt;/span&gt;’t want us to have the kid that pee’d her pants every time i snowed and refused to go outside!)  I knew the snow would not hurt her…I knew I would be right there with her…and I knew the ONLY way for her to get past this was to face her fear head on.&lt;br /&gt;SO…I put her down in the snow, took five steps and then turned around and looked at her.&lt;br /&gt;Yes, she cried.  Yes, my heart was hurting to see her cry…but I told her, “Charisse, walk to daddy.”  She proceeded to hold out her arms to me…but me picking her up would not have helped her get past something that &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;didn&lt;/span&gt;’t need to hold her captive.&lt;br /&gt;So…I said once again, “Charisse, walk to daddy–there is nothing to be afraid of.”&lt;br /&gt;All of a sudden she stopped crying, she literally just cut it off.  (&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Isn&lt;/span&gt;’t it funny how kids can do that?)  And then she took a step…then another…then another until she finally made it to me (to which I DID pick her up and give her a big hug.)&lt;br /&gt;Afterwards she looked at me and said, “down!”  (Which means please put me down!)  I said, “do you want to play in the snow?”  And she nodded her head yes!&lt;br /&gt;For the rest of the morning she and I played in the snow and had a blast…we built a snowman, I pulled Lucretia and her on the sled…it was awesome!  What once held her captive was now something she rejoiced in!BUT…it would not have been possible had I not, as her father, been willing to place her in an environment that forced her to overcome a fear that had no place having any control over her life.&lt;br /&gt;I think the Lord does the same thing for HIS children.&lt;br /&gt;So many times I have found myself held captive by fear…the ungodly kind.  The kind of fear that paralyzes…thoughts like…&lt;br /&gt;“What if I am single for the rest of my life?”&lt;br /&gt;“What if I try this tithing thing and go broke?”&lt;br /&gt;“What if something happens to me and I cannot provide for my family?”&lt;br /&gt;“What if I go on this mission trip and something bad happens to me?”&lt;br /&gt;“What if I write this blog post and people take shots at me?”&lt;br /&gt;“What if I preach this sermon and people get mad and leave?”&lt;br /&gt;“What if I make this highly unpopular leadership decision and cause a great degree of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;uncomfortability&lt;/span&gt;?”&lt;br /&gt;You see where I am going, right?  We’&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;ve&lt;/span&gt; all allowed fear (the wrong kind) to control us to the point to where we beg God to pick us up and make all of the bad stuff go away.&lt;br /&gt;BUT…I believe that many times Jesus puts us right in the middle of the situation we fear the most to prove His power, His faithfulness and to remind us that we are to fear HIM above anyone and anything.&lt;br /&gt;I have learned that when a situation keeps &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;reoccuring&lt;/span&gt; in my life that causes me fear and makes me uncomfortable…it is my Heavenly Father placing me in the middle of that fear to help me overcome it.  AND…He will keep doing so until I choose to trust Him rather than fear my circumstances.&lt;br /&gt;He’s faithful…and if you are fearful just remember…He’s right there, drawing you to Himself and trying to teach you that by keeping your eyes on Him…there is absolutely nothing to be afraid of.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;**************************************************************************&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;In life, and especially though our &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;spiritual&lt;/span&gt; life, this absolutely repeats itself.  Just when we believe in our hearts that we kinda have this "God thing" figured out, we realize all to often' that we are &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;nothing&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;comparison&lt;/span&gt; to God and his plan. Sometimes these seasons of revelation, are blips in time. Others are major events that will speak directly to our heart............that is, if we are willing to be open to God's pleasure........willing to be uncomfortable........willing to surrender.  Stepping out in faith is essential for any leader, and for anyone wanting to share the message of Jesus.  That initial step may seem insurmountable, but the act of following God's will and call for yourself, will SET YOU FREE.  The church, now more than ever, has to follow what breaks God's heart.  When we are placed in a situation that is unfamiliar and uncomfortable, remember that you must embrace change, act on faith and live for what's on God's heart.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-2857645553232119302?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/2857645553232119302/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=2857645553232119302' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/2857645553232119302'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/2857645553232119302'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/sometimes-we-have-to-face-our-fears.html' title='Sometimes we have to face our fears'/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-7237610474014310354</id><published>2009-03-20T11:46:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-20T11:49:18.537-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Encouragement</title><content type='html'>From Steven Furtick's blog:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="Permanent Link: They can’t stop you" href="http://www.stevenfurtick.com/uncategorized/they-can%e2%80%99t-stop-you/" rel="bookmark"&gt;They can’t stop you&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You probably remember the occasion when Gamaliel told the Sanhedrin to leave the disciples alone because:&lt;br /&gt;“If their purpose or activity is of human origin it will fail.  But if it is from God, you will not be able to stop these men; you will only find yourselves fighting against God.”Acts. 5:38-39&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are doing the work of God for the purposes of God in the power of God, you’re unstoppable too.  Just like the early church.  Just like Jesus Christ.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don’t remember where I first heard this little quote, but it has enlivened me on many tough days (it’s even posted in one of my assistants’ office):&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I want what God wants for the reasons God wants it, I’m unbeatable and unstoppable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Receive that today.  Breathe it in.  Then walk it out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe you’re a pastor squaring up with a carnal deacon board, trying to pursue a God given vision in the face of tremendous scrutiny and opposition.  Stay on the wall, Nehemiah.  That deacon board can’t stop you.   God is fighting for you!  Dream, implement, preach, evangelize, cast vision.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It will come to pass.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe you’re a parent trying to instill godly values into your child, and they’re putting up a hell of a fight every step of the way.   Remember, your child isn’t fighting against you.  According to Gamaliel, they’re fighting against God!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And whether they know it or not, they’ve met their match.  It’s just a matter of time ‘til He lands the knockout blow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep training, encouraging, correcting, disciplining, praising, mentoring, sowing.  It will produce a harvest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onclick="javascript:urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.biblegateway.com');" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=romans%208:31;&amp;amp;version=31;" target="_blank"&gt;If God is for you, who can be against you.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-7237610474014310354?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/7237610474014310354/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=7237610474014310354' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7237610474014310354'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7237610474014310354'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/encouragement.html' title='Encouragement'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-637264585327282177</id><published>2009-03-19T07:58:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-19T08:02:27.843-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.driveinternational.org/"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5314867384471985202" style="WIDTH: 210px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 132px" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XoWqj3yLTcU/ScIzug_DHDI/AAAAAAAAAG0/s_D2jd1Sm4s/s400/DriveIN_Banner.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.driveinternational.org/"&gt;http://www.driveinternational.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;DRIVE-IN is a series of live Web events featuring Andy Stanley created for international church leaders. DRIVE-IN explores the foundational philosophy and principles that guided the leadership of North Point Community Church in creating irresistible, relevant environments that continue to attract people who don’t like church.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-637264585327282177?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/637264585327282177/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=637264585327282177' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/637264585327282177'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/637264585327282177'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/httpwww.html' title=''/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XoWqj3yLTcU/ScIzug_DHDI/AAAAAAAAAG0/s_D2jd1Sm4s/s72-c/DriveIN_Banner.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-7775665661866311196</id><published>2009-03-17T15:44:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-17T15:49:23.683-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Urgent Personal Finance Advice</title><content type='html'>Urgent personal finance advice from &lt;a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2008/06/urgent-personal.html"&gt;Seth Godin&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If I could only share one piece of personal finance advice to grads or to just about anyone, it would be this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Only borrow money to pay for things that increase in value.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;It's a short list: your business, your house and your education, mostly. Stocks if you're smarter than me. That's pretty much it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have credit card debt, you're in big trouble. Your bank account has a huge leak in it, and it's getting worse. Hence the urgency.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have credit card debt, that means that every time you spend money (even cash), you're borrowing money to do so. And so, if you're going out to dinner or buying a new pair of shoes, you've just broken the single most important rule of personal finance. You're spending borrowed money on stuff that is decreasing in value.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is an emergency. It's an emergency because every single day you wait, the problem gets worse. A lot worse.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My suggestion: Go to defcon 1, and do it immediately. Shift gears to live well below your means. That means:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;No restaurants&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;No clothes shopping&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;No cable TV bill&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;No Starbucks&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;It means:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Take in a tenant in your spare bedroom&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Carpool to work&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Skip vacation this year&lt;br /&gt;Eat brown rice and beans every night for dinner&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Act like you have virtually no income.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;The result? You'll save $5,000 to $20,000 a year. Send all of it to the credit card company. Do this until you're debt free, the faster the better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There. Now you're rich. Now you get interest on your savings instead of paying the bank. Twenty years from now, this emergency action will translate into perhaps a million dollars in the bank, depending on how much you earn and how serious you are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can thank me then.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-7775665661866311196?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/7775665661866311196/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=7775665661866311196' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7775665661866311196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7775665661866311196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/urgent-personal-finance-advice.html' title='Urgent Personal Finance Advice'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-7111935861818051689</id><published>2009-03-17T13:06:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-17T13:09:03.555-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Leaders...</title><content type='html'>From Geaorge Ambler:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Leaders are visionaries with a poorly developed sense of fear and no concept of the odds against them.” - Robert Jarvik&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leaders pioneer and initiate change. Leaders are not &lt;a href="http://www.thepracticeofleadership.net/2007/02/20/sheepwalker/" target="_blank" closure_hashcode_="1845"&gt;sheepwalkers&lt;/a&gt; and they do not follow the traditional &lt;a href="http://www.thepracticeofleadership.net/2008/10/06/leadership-is-about-trailblazing-new-trails/" target="_blank" closure_hashcode_="1846"&gt;cow paths of life&lt;/a&gt;. Leaders bring the future into the present. This is because leaders see what others do not, they think differently. It’s because of this that visionaries find resistance from many fronts. Consider the following…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“The flight be machines heavier than air is unpractical and insignificant, if not utterly impossible” – Simon Newcomb, an astronomer of some note, 1902&lt;br /&gt;“It is an idle dream to imagine that . . . automobiles will take the place of railways in the long distance movement . . of passengers.” – American Road Congress, 1913&lt;br /&gt;“The odds are now that the United States will not be able to honor the 1970 manned-lunar-landing date set by Mr. Kennedy.” – New Scientist, April 30, 1964&lt;br /&gt;“There is no reason for any individual to have a computer in their home.” – Ken Olsen, president Digital Equipment Corporation, 1977&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leaders create change and are often faced with resistance and challenge. In spite of this many succeed…&lt;br /&gt;(From Jess-Let's revisit a video that was posted awhile back...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object height="344" width="425"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/4oAB83Z1ydE&amp;amp;color1=0xb1b1b1&amp;amp;color2=0xcfcfcf&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;feature=player_embedded&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/4oAB83Z1ydE&amp;color1=0xb1b1b1&amp;color2=0xcfcfcf&amp;hl=en&amp;feature=player_embedded&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-7111935861818051689?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/7111935861818051689/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=7111935861818051689' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7111935861818051689'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7111935861818051689'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/leaders.html' title='Leaders...'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-1422731672029175899</id><published>2009-03-11T16:30:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:03:45.122-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>WOW!</title><content type='html'>Really THINK about this.  It's good stuff!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"A quick, undeveloped thought for today:&lt;br /&gt;The more we have, the more we have to lose.&lt;br /&gt;The less we have, the less we have to lose. The less we have to lose, the freer we are to live/minister/serve/sacrifice like we have nothing to lose.&lt;br /&gt;After all, isn’t the most important thing to us something we can’t lose?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; - Scott McClellan on Collide Magazine's blog today&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-1422731672029175899?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/1422731672029175899/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=1422731672029175899' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/1422731672029175899'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/1422731672029175899'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/wow.html' title='WOW!'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-373466921978276345</id><published>2009-03-03T11:17:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:03:57.754-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>Great Post -</title><content type='html'>Great post from one of the blogs that I read daily -&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="entry-title-link" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/JenniCatron/~3/Q6Ra870b36E/" target="_blank" closure_hashcode_="461"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Growing as a Leader&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;from &lt;a class="entry-source-title" href="http://www.google.com/reader/view/feed/http%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.feedburner.com%2FJenniCatron" target="_blank" closure_hashcode_="462"&gt;Jenni Catron&lt;/a&gt; by Jenni Catron&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If I know anything about leadership, it’s that it doesn’t come easy.&lt;br /&gt;Yes, some people have a natural gift toward leadership, however growing and developing as a leader is hard work.  It won’t just happen.  A position of authority won’t miraculously make you a good leader.  Being called a leader doesn’t make you a good leader.  Going to leadership conferences won’t make you a good leader.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You will become a good leader when you become dedicated to being one.  It has to be intentional.  You have to work at, pray for and seek it EVERY day.  You have to read, listen, study EVERY day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are some of my suggestions for things you can do to grow as a leader EVERY day:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make praying for leadership wisdom a part of every day&lt;br /&gt;Read 30 min to an hour from a leadership book every day (including the Bible - there is great leadership stuff in there!)&lt;br /&gt;Study other leaders around you and journal your observations&lt;br /&gt;Find a peer who sees your leadership in action and can give you honest, candid feedback&lt;br /&gt;Seek out a seasoned leader to meet with occasionally who will coach and mentor you (this could be one person or many)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The bottom line is you’ve got to work at it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You’ve got to be a student of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You’ve got to be committed to it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So let me ask you, what are you doing today to grow as a leader?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-373466921978276345?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/373466921978276345/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=373466921978276345' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/373466921978276345'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/373466921978276345'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/great-post.html' title='Great Post -'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-6905180871982816011</id><published>2009-03-02T12:28:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-02T12:40:04.667-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Life's too short...</title><content type='html'>You know, for years, one of my favorite sayings has been:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Life's too short to hang around a bunch of people who don't realize how wonderful you are."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I recognize on first glance that could seem a little arrogant.  But I believe that it is ABSOLUTELY true.  We all vascillate from moments of vanity to moments of insecurity, depending on the situation, but I believe THIS to be true-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In general, we should surround ourselves with people who see the potential in us that we don't yet see...people who will help us stretch and grow into all God created us to be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, if we aren't careful, we'll find ourselves in the opposite situation instead, surrounded by people who really don't see what we bring to the table, and never will.  Then we find ourselves trying to continuously prove ourselves and justify our position, our worth, and our value.  That can be a full time job.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes, you just have to step off the treadmill of trying to measure up to other people's standards.  Life's too short...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-6905180871982816011?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/6905180871982816011/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=6905180871982816011' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6905180871982816011'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6905180871982816011'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/03/lifes-too-short.html' title='Life&apos;s too short...'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-6422185621990123914</id><published>2009-02-11T10:06:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-11T10:15:47.590-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>What defines success?</title><content type='html'>Copied this quote from another blog today.  I've heard it before and it ALWAYS chokes me when I read it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot . . . and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why . . . I succeed.” - Michael Jordan&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can relate to that because I was a basketball player.  I've been on the losing team on the basketball court, I've been the person to miss the game winning shot.  I know how that feels.  It feels like failure....and it hurts.   BUT... &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If the opposite of failure is success, what defines success?  I think success is getting back up and trying again when you fail....because &lt;strong&gt;if you never make that effort again, you'll always be a loser&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do you need to get back up and try to do again even though it hurt the first time?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-6422185621990123914?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/6422185621990123914/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=6422185621990123914' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6422185621990123914'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6422185621990123914'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/02/what-defines-success.html' title='What defines success?'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-7826463570095803870</id><published>2009-02-04T14:02:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:01:22.379-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Loren'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Crazy Love!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;We have our latest series under way....Crazy Love.  Pastor Ashley started us down the road to understanding God's Love for us.  Any comments on our theme song?  Better keep text-voting to her cell, if you have a fav!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;I have a great set planned for us this week and I hope you all enjoy it.  There is a new song for us, probably at the end of the service.  It is titled "No Other Name" by Todd Fields. He is an awesome worhship leader at Northpoint Community Church in Atlanta, Ga.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.northpoint.org/"&gt;www.northpoint.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Here are the songs:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Trust&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Meet with Me&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Amazing Love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;No Other Name&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Set up will be Friday night at 6pm.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Practice will be Sunday morning at 8am.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;All for now.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-7826463570095803870?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/7826463570095803870/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=7826463570095803870' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7826463570095803870'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7826463570095803870'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/02/crazy-love-we-have-our-latest-series.html' title=''/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-8070029121737247790</id><published>2009-01-27T23:36:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:02:07.399-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Loren'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Hey everyone,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;"30 Days to Live" is now in the books and what a series!!!  Great info to help us with the Life change we need to grow closer to Christ each day.  Our next series is titled "Crazy Love" and it is going to be another great series that you will not want to miss.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Band Info and songs for 2/01&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Beautiful One&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Psalm 40&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;All Who Are Thirsty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;More than Ever (at end of service)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Let's do one of our new songs at 10:40 to kick the service off. (How bout "No Other Name")&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Set up will be Friday night at 6pm and lets get together at 8am Sunday morning for practice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Danny's band, "Playback" will be at Chapz on Friday night also, so we are taking a continent of RLers to catch dinner there and watch the band.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-8070029121737247790?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/8070029121737247790/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=8070029121737247790' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8070029121737247790'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8070029121737247790'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/01/hey-everyone-30-days-to-live-is-now-in.html' title=''/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-8492419915320437246</id><published>2009-01-27T23:19:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T23:22:52.454-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Consensus...</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/I’m%20growing%20more%20and%20more%20convinced%20that%20the%20worst%20thing%20an%20organization%20can%20do%20is%20try%20to%20reach%20a%20consenus%20about%20something.%20Think%20government.%20Think%20church%20committee%20meetings.%20Think%20declining%20big%20business."&gt;Tony Morgan's blog&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’m growing more and more convinced that the worst thing an organization can do is try to reach a consenus about something. Think government. Think church committee meetings. Think declining big business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the surface, reaching a consensus seems like a positive thing because it means people have agreed to move in the same direction. That’s a good thing isn’t it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Actually, I’m not convinced that’s the case. For example, here are 5 Reasons Why Consensus Sucks:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. It embraces the status quo. Change, whether positive or not, is not human nature. We would prefer for things to remain the way they are today. So, when people get together to discuss the possibility of doing something a little different in the future, it’s normal for the majority to avoid making changes.&lt;br /&gt;2. It gives the malcontents an equal voice in your decision. Reaching consensus gives everyone a voice at the table. When that happens, even the negative, bitter folks that don’t really embrace the vision have the opportunity to pull the rest of the group away from what could really be the most desirable outcome.&lt;br /&gt;3. It short circuits the radical ideas that lead to the biggest breakthroughs. The big, bold ideas won’t see the light of day. Yet those are the ideas that could potentially lead to the best innovations. Consensus brings people back to the middle where the majority approves but mediocrity reigns.&lt;br /&gt;4. It leaves unresolved conflict on the table. At the opposite ends of a decision are distinct opinions which, if left unresolved, could potentially lead to division. Consensus prevents tough conversations from happening. It gives people the freedom to jump to compromise without engaging a healthy debate.&lt;br /&gt;5. It discourages people from dreaming big dreams. Want to neuter the creative-thinkers and entrepreneurs and visionaries in your organization? Force them to reach consensus with the rest of the crowd. These are the people that make you uncomfortable. They can drive you crazy. That’s OK. They’ll just go work someplace else if you keep forcing them to compromise their dreams.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do you think? Do you agree? Or, have you actually seen consensus work? What would you add or delete from the list?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let’s try to reach a consensus on whether or not consensus sucks.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-8492419915320437246?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/8492419915320437246/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=8492419915320437246' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8492419915320437246'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8492419915320437246'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/01/consensu.html' title='Consensus...'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-2519876186922132964</id><published>2009-01-20T22:09:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:01:37.484-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Loren'/><title type='text'>30 Days to Live</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;Good evening all!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;30 Days to Live has been spectacular. God is "stretching" me in a HUGE way over the past few weeks! When you begin to look at life as just a fleeting moment, or "a vapor" as Craig has been speaking, and you really focus in on what God wants for your life, you realize truly what is important. Relationships.......with family and friends.................and most importantly, with God through Jesus, become GINORMUS. We must be making the most of all of the relationships currently in our life, as well as those the we need to make, and truly MUST make, with those who do not know Jesus. Keep the faith and KNOW that you are the DIFFERENCE!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;Friday night set up and BAND practice 01/23/2009 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;*6pm set up&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;*7pm test and tune&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;*7:15pm first chords&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;We will work on our 3 new songs and the set for Sunday 1/25&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;*&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;Songs for Sunday&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;We Praise You Lord(capo 3/Bb)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;Love the Lord(G)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;In the Secret(G)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;I Give it All to You (Rich's song)D/G&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;Trust (with slow intro, verse and chorus)(G)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;*songs 4 and 5 will be at the end of the service&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;*Call to worship song Promptly at 10:40am Sunday (instrumental Real Life)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;I love you guys and THANK YOU for all that you do!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-2519876186922132964?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/2519876186922132964/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=2519876186922132964' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/2519876186922132964'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/2519876186922132964'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/01/30-days-to-live.html' title='30 Days to Live'/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-9078368681066250135</id><published>2009-01-05T13:59:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-05T14:01:38.136-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Swatting at Gnats</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://www.stevenfurtick.com/"&gt;StevenFurtick.com&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="Permanent Link: Swatting at gnats" href="http://www.stevenfurtick.com/uncategorized/swatting-at-gnats/" rel="bookmark"&gt;Swatting at gnats&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I heard this from an eyewitness:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An internationally famous minister recently spent some time with another well known pastor.    The more experienced pastor was listening to the other guy elaborate about some things that were weighing heavily on him, keeping him up at night, stealing his focus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After this went on for a little while, the more experienced minister looked at his friend and told him: “You’re swatting at gnats.  You’re going to wreck your car swatting at gnats.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That spoke to me.  I spend too much time swatting at gnats.  I expend my energy fighting battles where there are no spoils.  I let worry and anxiety overwhelm me about situations that are either hypothetical, or outside of my control.  I let stupid comments from stupid people occupy oh-so-valuable bandwidth in my brain.  I blow my dilemmas out of proportion until they seem larger than life, and impossible to solve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We’ve got to stop swatting at gnats.  We’ve got places to go, and bigger things to do.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-9078368681066250135?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/9078368681066250135/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=9078368681066250135' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/9078368681066250135'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/9078368681066250135'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/01/swatting-at-gnats.html' title='Swatting at Gnats'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-5851944803812551587</id><published>2009-01-04T20:29:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:01:55.399-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Loren'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Sunday Jan. 04, 2009&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Sunday night random thoughts:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;*30 Days to Live.........WOW! What a great message and a great start on our series for &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;January&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Here are the key points:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Turn "Whens/&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Thens&lt;/span&gt;" into "&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Nows&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Turn "Intentions" into "Actions"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Turn your whole heart to Jesus&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Today's&lt;/span&gt; message was very powerful and extremely inspiring. Let's all make it a point to share this series and our church with a friend!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;*Worship.......Wow again!!!!!! Here's the Set list for today:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Come, Now is the Time to Worship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Fields of Grace&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Everlasting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;More Love, More Power&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;-Today was one of the most awesome experiences.  I am not sure that I have an explanation for you on why it was so awesome for me, but it was amazing!  During "Everlasting", the church participation was like a cup overflowing!!  You guys were singing your hearts out and I was loving it. God is truly AWESOME!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Thanks everyone and have a great evening!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-5851944803812551587?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/5851944803812551587/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=5851944803812551587' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5851944803812551587'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5851944803812551587'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2009/01/sunday-jan.html' title=''/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-5219359503042768948</id><published>2008-12-30T23:43:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:02:24.587-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Loren'/><title type='text'>2008 Wrap up/2009 Change</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Hey Gang, I hope everyone had a wonderful CHRISTmas!! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;I wanted to put down some reflections that are on my heart from Sunday morning. I hope that you all had the opportunity to be at Real LIfe with us this weekend (&lt;a href="http://www.forreallife.com/"&gt;www.forreallife.com&lt;/a&gt;).  If not, we celebrated our successes for 2008 and talked about Change for 2009, give Vanessa a shout if you want to hear the message.  As I look back at the morning and the message, I get so excited about 2009 and the possibilites for us as a group of people serving God!  We have been given an amazing opportunity(and responsibility) to reach out to people in our communities, and to share with them a message of Jesus.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;**Here are a couple of thoughts on our opportunity/responsibility:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;What are you doing to get out of your spiritual comfort zone?  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Are you reading: the bible, books, blogs, etc? Are you searching for knowledge to make you better?  Remember, it is going to "Cost" you to go to the next level!!  We have to get out of our comfort zone to move forward in our spiritual life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Once out of your comfort zone, are you open to and willing to change?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Are you ok with putting your personal likes and dislikes asside in order for another person to get a glimpse of God and what a realtionship with Him could be like?  As followers of Christ, we must be willing to look at things through the eyes of person who does not know Jesus.  We have to be intentional about providing an atmosphere where people can check out the temperature of water, before having to jump in.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Exponential Growth Factor!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;I touched on this a little on Sunday. When we take things on our shoulders and "get things done" on our hard work and effort, we can grow Christs kingdom, only as big as we are able to keep things from falling thru the cracks. When we try to keep working hard on our own and trust and consult God on for the things that are seemingly going wrong, we still can see some kingdom growth.  But I think what God has been trying to get us to see is that we have to put His desires first and foremost. We have to let Him use us, instead of Us using Him for our wants and wishes.  In order to experience this "Exponential Growth Factor", we have to surrender our wants, desires and wishes to Him.  Put Him First always! If we, as a church, can figure this out......."hold on to you fork" as Perry Noble would say!!!  There is some great stuff coming our way!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Hey, that's all for now, but remember this Sunday starts "30 days to Live".  You do not want to miss this!  This series will be a great step in the direction of change for 2009!!  See ya there.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-5219359503042768948?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/5219359503042768948/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=5219359503042768948' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5219359503042768948'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5219359503042768948'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/12/2008-wrap-up2009-change.html' title='2008 Wrap up/2009 Change'/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-3232996055308936976</id><published>2008-12-16T10:41:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-18T19:09:20.976-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Opinions</title><content type='html'>Got this today from TheDailyVerse.com&lt;br /&gt;If you don't subscribe, I would encourage you to check it out...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;"We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ... 2 Corinthians 10:5&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can't control everything that happens to you, but you do have the ability to choose how you respond to things. Choose to run your thoughts and your actions through the filter of Christ, taking captive those that won't move you, your situation or the Gospel forward."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-3232996055308936976?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/3232996055308936976/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=3232996055308936976' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3232996055308936976'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3232996055308936976'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/12/opinions.html' title='Opinions'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-1124731175700343096</id><published>2008-11-22T10:51:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T12:27:45.820-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>CRAZY LOVE!</title><content type='html'>Apparently, the book "Crazy Love" by Francis Chan is AMAZING.  Although, I haven't read it, many of the people that I love are RAVING about it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These quotes are from &lt;a href="http://www.perrynoble.com/"&gt;Perry Noble's blog&lt;/a&gt;, but come from Chan's book:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;“Could it be your arrogance that makes you think God owes you an explanation?”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;“I quickly found that the American church is a difficult place to fit in if you want to live out New Testament Christianity.  The goals of American Christianity are often a nice marriage, children who don’t swear, and good church attendance.  Taking the words of Christ literally and seriously is rarely considered.”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;“Jesus’ call to commitment is clear:  He wants all or nothing.  The thought of a person calling himself a “Christian” without being a devoted follower of Christ is absurd.”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;“Our greatest fear as individuals and as a church should not be of failure, but of succeeding at things in life that don’t really matter.”  (DANG!!!)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;“Having faith often means doing what others see as crazy.  Something is wrong when our lives make sense to other believers.”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;“If a guy were dating my daughter but didn’t want to spend the gas money to come and pick her up or refused to buy her dinner because it cost too much, I would question whether he were really in love with her.  In the same way, I question whether many American churchgoers are really in love with God, because they are so hesitant to do anything for Him.”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;How's that for blunt?  Talk about a smackdown!  I'm feeling convicted...how about you?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-1124731175700343096?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/1124731175700343096/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=1124731175700343096' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/1124731175700343096'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/1124731175700343096'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/crazy-love.html' title='CRAZY LOVE!'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-163565066039514521</id><published>2008-11-18T10:23:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-18T10:29:46.740-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>Great Quote -</title><content type='html'>A Quote from Mark Batterson on his blog today  -&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I have a little formula: change of pace + change of place = change of perspective. Works like a charm! We have to disrupt our routine so we can think new thoughts."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do we need to do to disrupt our routine so we can think new thoughts?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-163565066039514521?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/163565066039514521/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=163565066039514521' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/163565066039514521'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/163565066039514521'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/great-quote.html' title='Great Quote -'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-8073245070641378317</id><published>2008-11-17T09:11:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-17T09:12:38.106-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Simple...</title><content type='html'>&lt;object height="344" width="425"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/BTy6JR7wFlg&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/BTy6JR7wFlg&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-8073245070641378317?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/8073245070641378317/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=8073245070641378317' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8073245070641378317'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8073245070641378317'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/simple.html' title='Simple...'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-5000874166293966069</id><published>2008-11-10T10:46:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-10T10:48:17.843-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>STAND...</title><content type='html'>I read a blog by Jenni Catron daily...This was part of today's....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Just thought I would share today’s verse:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”Philippians 1:6&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Commentary:God is doing something in you. If the going is tough, keep pressing forward. One way or other, the work He’s doing is going to get done, so your cooperation and willingness to play ball will only add to your joy and the end result according to His perfect design. Embrace the journey!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;You can sign up for &lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thedailyverse.com/" target="_blank" closure_hashcode_="526"&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Daily Verse HERE&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;em&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Are you impatient with the process right now?  Is God doing something in you that you wish would just be finished?  Hang on and enjoy the ride!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-5000874166293966069?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/5000874166293966069/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=5000874166293966069' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5000874166293966069'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5000874166293966069'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/stand.html' title='STAND...'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-1102255138207895140</id><published>2008-11-10T06:34:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-10T06:37:01.697-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Baseball &amp; the Church (part 3)</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://www.beyondrelevance.com/"&gt;BEYOND RELEVANCE&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;The Stadium Principle (part 3) (copyrighted by Richard L. Reisling)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is the third installment in The Stadium Principle. Let’s finish this off.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After many years of playing, usually someone with great talent develops—from little league to college to the big leagues.  Picture a rising star with me.  He’s like a Nolan Ryan or a Roger Clemens.  He’s Randy Johnson.  Ok, imagine it’s the bottom of the ninth inning at game seven of the World Series.  We’re talking intense—the President of the United States threw out the first pitch, Grammy-award winner sang the national anthem like you’ve never heard it before, the game has been back and forth, back and forth.  Bottom of the ninth and everything is on the line. Randy’s on the pitcher’s mound and it’s the moment of a lifetime for him.  All of the years or little league and college ball have built up to this.  Randy has lived baseball—eaten, drunk, and slept baseball.  His friends love the game and they love how he plays the game.  Bottom of the ninth—it’s a full count, two outs, one strike and we win.  People are tuned in around the world watching this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you think Randy Johnson, at this moment, remembers what it feels like to not care about baseball?  Do you think he’d be able to relate to someone who has never been to a game at this moment?  Just like Randy, do you think pastors who have lived church—eaten, drunk, and slept church—with friends who love God and admire them…do you think they remember what it’s like to be a stranger to church and to not know God?  Do you think most pastors routinely remember what it’s like to hear about Jesus for the first time?  It is almost counterintuitive.  After all, as church leaders, we spend most of our time with church folk.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I say this in prayer that we never forget what is going on in the hearts and minds of those people in the upper deck.  Those are the most overlooked and least connected with.  It’s easy to pitch for the lower deck—they are the cheers we hear the loudest.  A good pitcher learns how to make the game great for people at all levels of the stadium.  God give us a heart for the upper decker and allow us to never forget the first time we heard the crack of the bat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;© Richard L. Reising&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-1102255138207895140?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/1102255138207895140/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=1102255138207895140' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/1102255138207895140'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/1102255138207895140'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/baseball-church-part-3.html' title='Baseball &amp; the Church (part 3)'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-7881577054281356232</id><published>2008-11-10T06:30:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-10T06:33:46.780-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Baseball &amp; the Church (part 2)</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://www.beyondrelevance.com/"&gt;BEYOND RELEVANCE&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;The Stadium Principle (part 2) (copyrighted by Richard :. Reisling)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last time I gave a baseball analogy and talked about how I went from making fun of the baseball freaks to actually becoming one.  I talked about the fact that I didn’t get there overnight.  It was gradually through baby steps.  I went from hating the game, to giving in and actually going to a game, to discovering that baseball might even be enjoyable, to going back to another game, to buying season tickets, and joining a softball league.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These baby steps could be paralleled to many people’s experience with the church and accepting Christ.  I thought I would never set foot in a church until my friend pleaded and I gave in.  I sat there feeling empty and full all at the same time.  It was obvious to me that there was something more and when the pastor spoke, it was like that home run—in my heart.  His words inspired me and I returned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Later, I committed my life to Christ and I found myself more and more sold out.  I was investing more--paying more for my seats.  I wore the Christian t-shirt and I had the leather Bible.  God was working in my heart and people began to see a change in me.  I joined the church and solidified my commitment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One day, as I was growing, God called me out to the playing field.  I now find myself serving any time that I can.  I can’t wait to see all of my friend and family come to know Christ.  Sometimes, like Paul, God completely knocks you off your horse and you go from disconnected outside of the ballpark to the playing field in a very short time.  Unfortunately, this is not the case most of the time.  It’s a matter of progression over time.  During that time, God works in our hearts and minds to change our perception.  Now I am not saying we are not all immediately called to be witnesses, I am saying that we grow and progress in our walk with Christ at different rates, but in similar stages.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what can we, as a church, do to help those outside the ballpark make it to the upper deck? What about the upper-deckers moving to the lower deck?  How do we challenge the lower deck to get on the playing field and be part of the team?  I’m sure you’ve seen the parallel that I’ve made by now and I pray that you understand I am not belittling the church with this illustration.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My heart is simply to understand that perceptions are quite varied in our churches.  Whether it’s unbelievers, or scholars, we’ve got to learn to reach people right where they are and motivate them to the next level.  Are you thinking about that every week as you prepare your messages? Make it so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;© Richard L. Reising&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-7881577054281356232?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/7881577054281356232/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=7881577054281356232' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7881577054281356232'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7881577054281356232'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/baseball-church-part-2.html' title='Baseball &amp; the Church (part 2)'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-2588341207047191078</id><published>2008-11-10T06:24:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-10T06:29:46.866-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Baseball &amp; the Church (Part 1)</title><content type='html'>From &lt;a href="http://www.beyondrelevance.com/"&gt;BEYOND RELEVANCE&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;The Stadium Principle (part 1) (Copyrighted by Richard . Reisling)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A scenario: ok, you and I are good buddies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are the world’s biggest baseball fan. I am on the other end of the spectrum. I can’t think of a more boring game than baseball. I’ve never even been to a game before, but I am absolutely convinced that I wouldn’t like it. You ask me constantly to come with you and I can’t wait until you’ll stop asking, but one day I give in to your request in the midst of a weak moment. So I’m going to this game with you, but you are most definitely buying my nosebleed ticket that’s approximately $2 and my hot dog as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We sit in the upper deck on a blazing hot day—you’re completely happy and I’m pretty much in agony. I’m eating my hot dog and slurping my drink when suddenly, the home team knocks one out of the park. We jump up and high-five each other! I’m totally caught off guard. Somehow the hit inspired me and I’m thinking that maybe I like baseball after all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not what I expected at all. I might have actually enjoyed a baseball game.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course you ask me to go again and I surprisingly commit. This time I’ll buy my own ticket and hot dog. I’m willing to spend that much, but not enough to sit in the lower deck with the $80/seat baseball freaks. They are just a bit much for me at this point. Although I like baseball, my commitment is minimum. After returning for a couple of games in my cheap upper deck seats, my passion for baseball builds. Now, the $80 seats don’t seem so expensive and I could even catch a foul ball down there. I find myself decked out in all the gear—hat, jersey, leather glove, the works.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’m a sold out fan. I push it even further by getting season tickets. I want to make sure I don’t miss a single inning. People at work now know me as one of those baseball freaks and I’ve even joined a softball league. I plan on coaching my kids’ softball team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The thing is, I didn’t get here overnight. I got here with baby steps. Something to think about and chew on for a few days. Were you ever the person who hated a particular thing and made fun of the so-called “freaks”? Paul was. And even he spent a short season getting prepared for the transition from onlooker to first baseman.&lt;br /&gt;© Richard L. Reising&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-2588341207047191078?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/2588341207047191078/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=2588341207047191078' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/2588341207047191078'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/2588341207047191078'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/baseball-church.html' title='Baseball &amp; the Church (Part 1)'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-602521007234470553</id><published>2008-11-06T18:15:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-06T18:16:27.371-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>Gotta love it....</title><content type='html'>HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object height="344" width="425"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/D7_dZTrjw9I&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/D7_dZTrjw9I&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-602521007234470553?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/602521007234470553/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=602521007234470553' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/602521007234470553'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/602521007234470553'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/gotta-love-it.html' title='Gotta love it....'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-722001435242696181</id><published>2008-11-06T08:51:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-06T08:55:13.717-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Team Building</title><content type='html'>From Craig Groeschel @ Lifechurch.tv comes this great post about Team Building:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"When you’re building a team, you have to remember a team takes time to build.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;You must be willing:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To fight together.&lt;/strong&gt;  A team that can’t work through conflict will never be a team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To be loyal to the death.&lt;/strong&gt;  Even though you can fight behind closed doors, you ALWAYS stand together publicly. &lt;em&gt;Disloyalty is never tolerated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To be transparent.&lt;/strong&gt;  If you can’t be brutally honest about everything, you don’t have a team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To care for each other.&lt;/strong&gt;  A team that is “all business” will eventually deteriorate. A ministry team must become a family.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To have fun together.&lt;/strong&gt;  I always know a team is not healthy when I don’t hear them laughing often. "&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-722001435242696181?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/722001435242696181/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=722001435242696181' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/722001435242696181'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/722001435242696181'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/team-building.html' title='Team Building'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-7222254224226281797</id><published>2008-11-04T13:26:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-04T13:28:22.832-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>Incredible...</title><content type='html'>This is a GREAT song...  Love the words...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;object height="225" width="400"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=1984526&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=1&amp;amp;show_byline=1&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=&amp;amp;fullscreen=1"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=1984526&amp;amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;amp;show_title=1&amp;amp;show_byline=1&amp;amp;show_portrait=0&amp;amp;color=&amp;amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="225"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://vimeo.com/1984526"&gt;New Creation Video Content&lt;/a&gt; from &lt;a href="http://vimeo.com/pacehartfield"&gt;Pace Hartfield&lt;/a&gt; on &lt;a href="http://vimeo.com/"&gt;Vimeo&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-7222254224226281797?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/7222254224226281797/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=7222254224226281797' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7222254224226281797'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/7222254224226281797'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/incredible.html' title='Incredible...'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-8266722338470232012</id><published>2008-11-04T10:43:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-04T10:43:35.624-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Can You Do This?</title><content type='html'>&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/K14c4NGuhDI&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/K14c4NGuhDI&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-8266722338470232012?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/8266722338470232012/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=8266722338470232012' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8266722338470232012'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8266722338470232012'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/can-you-do-this.html' title='Can You Do This?'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-6661831907391625421</id><published>2008-11-04T08:44:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-04T08:48:17.037-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Stand Firm...</title><content type='html'>&lt;u&gt;From &lt;a href="http://www.stevenfurtick.com/spirtual-growth/1-corinthians-1558/"&gt;Steven Furtick's Blog&lt;/a&gt; today:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"God uploaded a verse in my spirit Saturday, and it refreshed my perspective in a profound way.  I’ll try to pass some inspiration from the verse along to you piece by piece.  I don’t have anything profound to add, but the verse is awfully encouraging all by itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;1 Cor. 15:58   Therefore, my dear brothers,stand firm.  Let nothing move you.  Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stand firm&lt;/strong&gt;.  Nothing is move vital to accomplishing the purpose of God for your life than a spirit of resolve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;When your stomach starts to hurt in the few days following a big, risky, God-breathed decision, &lt;strong&gt;stand firm&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When you’re tempted to flirt with an old sin pattern, &lt;strong&gt;stand firm&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When critics speak lies about you, &lt;strong&gt;stand firm&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When friends forsake you, &lt;strong&gt;stand firm&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When the money’s low, and your logic says to bail out, but the Spirit of God says don’t back down, &lt;strong&gt;stand firm&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When what you’re preaching isn’t popular, but it’s Biblical and necessary, &lt;strong&gt;stand firm&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Let nothing move you."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;GOOD ADVICE.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-6661831907391625421?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/6661831907391625421/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=6661831907391625421' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6661831907391625421'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/6661831907391625421'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/11/stand-firm.html' title='Stand Firm...'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-196066000308371291</id><published>2008-10-29T12:37:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-29T12:54:18.198-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>Revelation...</title><content type='html'>Ya know...for years I have heard the alarming statistics about how people age 18-29 view the church as irrelevant, judgemental, old-fashioned, out-of-touch with reality, insensitive, hypocritical, boring, etc... They're just overall disenchanted with the church, and it alarms everyone. There is a key point to the statements though...they all pertain to THE CHURCH. They have no problem with GOD or JESUS, but they have a problem with His FOLLOWERS and how those followers ACT. This used to alarm me, but even more so, it made me sad. It made my heart HURT because there was a gap between the people my age and Jesus because THE CHURCH is supposed to fill that gap. It is supposed to be the connector...and it is FAILING.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, today I was working and had a revelation. For the first time in my life I realized that I AM ONE of those statistics.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The only difference between me and most of those numbers...is the fact that I am trying to change the face of the church.  I am trying to make the church more relevant, realistic, and accepting.  I didn't run away from it.  I am trying to help it fulfill it's mission of being the bridge between people and Jesus.....but I am still "disenchanted" with it.  The overall church of today, I believe is irrelevant, hypocritical, unaccepting, and judgemental...so I feel JUST LIKE the people in those surveys.  I just responded different. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is a gap between what the church is doing and what Jesus created it to do.  I'm trying to bridge it.  I make mistakes... and I fix them.  I fail, but I fail forward.  I fall down, but Jesus lifts me up. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's a gap....What are you gonna do about it?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-196066000308371291?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/196066000308371291/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=196066000308371291' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/196066000308371291'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/196066000308371291'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/revelation.html' title='Revelation...'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-2619052205803753555</id><published>2008-10-28T20:25:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T20:33:54.965-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Are we...?</title><content type='html'>From Gabe Lyons, co-author of &lt;em&gt;unChristian&lt;/em&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Ministry in general relates to mission, and mission in general relates to context. You need to understand the context of the world your ministry is trying to reach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Non-Christians aged 16-29 years old were asked, “What is your current perception of Christianity?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;91% said antihomosexual &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;87% said judgmental &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;85% said hypocritical &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;78% said old-fashioned &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;75% said too involved in politics &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;72% said out of touch with reality &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;70% said insensitive to others &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;68% said boring &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;64% said not accepting of other faiths &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;61% said confusing"&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;Some things to think about:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which perception most closely applies to your ministry or church in general?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How did we get here? Maybe we actually are these things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do you think?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-2619052205803753555?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/2619052205803753555/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=2619052205803753555' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/2619052205803753555'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/2619052205803753555'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/are-we.html' title='Are we...?'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-3372916822026191412</id><published>2008-10-28T07:21:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T07:23:27.346-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Ha!!</title><content type='html'>I saw the video in my last blog entry and posted it for you all to see!!  Then I saw that Vanessa had done the same one last night!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;WOW!  Great minds think alike!!  Guess I shoulda done my homework, huh?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-3372916822026191412?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/3372916822026191412/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=3372916822026191412' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3372916822026191412'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3372916822026191412'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/ha.html' title='Ha!!'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-969539000088025594</id><published>2008-10-28T07:19:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T07:20:46.006-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Fast...</title><content type='html'>Check out &lt;a href="http://www.lannydonoho.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/numbers-movie.mov"&gt;this video &lt;/a&gt;about how fast our world is changing!!  Crazy!!  I love it!!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-969539000088025594?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/969539000088025594/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=969539000088025594' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/969539000088025594'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/969539000088025594'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/fast.html' title='Fast...'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-396935702687121336</id><published>2008-10-27T22:42:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-27T22:49:18.580-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>Hmmmm...</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;object width="320" height="266" class="BLOG_video_class" id="BLOG_video-896aa113298754f0" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/get_player"&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF"&gt;&lt;param 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bgcolor="#FFFFFF"flashvars="flvurl=http://v17.nonxt7.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3D896aa113298754f0%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1331347990%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D6E6A09F4137F9B8D080B026B2724F491CED661F4.1270C272582F7DEB53A47A3A2425F1E6D4DB40F1%26key%3Dck1&amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3D896aa113298754f0%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3DKWItWUI82C1PebRBClPxH51qaSk&amp;autoplay=0&amp;ps=blogger"allowFullScreen="true" /&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lots of info....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now...whatchu gonna do with it...?  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Or better yet....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What are WE gonna do with it...???&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-396935702687121336?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=896aa113298754f0&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/396935702687121336/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=396935702687121336' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/396935702687121336'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/396935702687121336'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/hmmmm.html' title='Hmmmm...'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-3273929989256096889</id><published>2008-10-27T22:35:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-27T22:40:51.379-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vanessa'/><title type='text'>Crazy Ones...</title><content type='html'>THIS IS SOOOOOO US!!! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CHEERS!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="303" height="266" class="BLOG_video_class" id="BLOG_video-3a6ed24d8e51e54a" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/get_player"&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" 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href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/3273929989256096889/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=3273929989256096889' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3273929989256096889'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/3273929989256096889'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/crazy-ones.html' title='Crazy Ones...'/><author><name>Vanessa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08975439254423170009</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-9179777042158655851</id><published>2008-10-23T12:34:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-23T12:44:36.609-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Neat Core Values...</title><content type='html'>Real Life  just finished a series of 6 teachings on some of core values.  The series was called "GET REAL", and we had a great time with them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was reading a blog from Mark Batterson (remember that name...you're gonna hear it a lot around here), the Pastor at &lt;a href="http://theaterchurch.com/"&gt;National Community Church &lt;/a&gt;in Washington, DC (3 movie theater churches and a coffee house church).  He shared some of their churches core values.  Those were:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Everything is an Experiment&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Maturity does not equal Conformity&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Expect the Unexpected&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Love People when they Least Expect It and when they Least Deserve It&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;I love that.  Here's my translation of that:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Love people, do it in a UNIQUE way (even when it isn't easy), be flexible, and break the molds.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What's your translation of those values?  Post a comment and share what that says to you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-9179777042158655851?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/9179777042158655851/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=9179777042158655851' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/9179777042158655851'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/9179777042158655851'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/neat-core-values.html' title='Neat Core Values...'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-5646446752316061095</id><published>2008-10-23T10:16:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-09T11:02:46.502-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Loren'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:lucida grande;color:#3333ff;"&gt;Hey All,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;It is a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;glorious&lt;/span&gt; Thursday morning and this is my first ever "Blog".  I have read blogs from many different people about many different topics. I have to say, that the whole blog experience has been very enlightening for me.  When I first learned of this  "blog" thing, I really didn't get it.  Why would I want to sit around and read random thoughts from someone e&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;lse's&lt;/span&gt; mind?  I have enough problems dealing with the thoughts of my own mind sometimes!  But, as I have been able to learn over the past year, when you think that you have something, or anything for that matter, figured out, that is really when the world can come crashing in and let you know how small you really are.  So as I have been re-focusing my heart this past year to be open to new and different ways to be taught, I have embraced the "Blog" in a major way.  I have been challenged by the blogs that I follow in a major way.  I am able to hear the heart and passion that others have for their cause, AND it helps me to process my own thoughts and grow and dream and LIVE for what makes my heart on fire! Any and all  of you who know me, realize that passion is for Jesus and sharing His message to PEOPLE. Real People who are living among us who need to know CHRIST Loves them AND that no matter how screwed up things are in their life.........HE wants them and cares for them more than anything in the world!  He wants their &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;brokenness&lt;/span&gt;, their hurt, their pain, their incompleteness, their disease, their addiction, their sexual preference, their bills and debts, their broken marriages, their divorces, AND their desire to be in control........................................He doesn't need you, He wants you!!!  Is this blog going to change your life? Maybe not.  Will it challenge you to think differently than you have done in the past and ask you to get uncomfortable?  Probably so. Guys, we have to share our All-Loving Jesus with those that don't know, don't care, don't want to know, in a manner that speaks to them  and in a way other churches and people aren't.  We have to be different.  We have to think different.  We have to act different.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;I watched a video this morning that touched me in a big way!  We all have our problems like I listed above, but God wants us to use the heart and the talents He has given us to share a relationship with someone so that they may come to know Him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=8616c1559ab4221b3910" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=8616c1559ab4221b3910&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;I hope you enjoyed my first blog and come back for more..............&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Loren&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-5646446752316061095?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/5646446752316061095/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=5646446752316061095' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5646446752316061095'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/5646446752316061095'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/hey-all-it-is-glorious-thursday-morning.html' title=''/><author><name>Loren</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05040819767632891957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709679995728222409.post-8356119469950297945</id><published>2008-10-14T14:52:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-14T15:08:16.176-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jessica'/><title type='text'>Great Quote</title><content type='html'>"The difference between impossibility and possibility lies within a person's determination."&lt;br /&gt;-Unknown&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2709679995728222409-8356119469950297945?l=reallifeleaders.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/feeds/8356119469950297945/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2709679995728222409&amp;postID=8356119469950297945' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8356119469950297945'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2709679995728222409/posts/default/8356119469950297945'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://reallifeleaders.blogspot.com/2008/10/great-quote.html' title='Great Quote'/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03376197508129975186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
